August 2011
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There needs to be an American 1girl5Gays
60 ways to be who you want to be
60. Eliminate shoulds.
59. Enjoy down time.
58. Run towards your fears.
57. Be dependable.
56. Embrace self-responsibility.
55. Be completely honest.
54. First meet your own needs.
53. Notice the beauty around you.
52. Open your mind to change.
50. Set attainable goals.
49. Go at your own pace.
48. Honor your individuality.
47. Open yourself to umlimited possibilities.
46. See the humor in things.
45. Celebrate your imperfections.
44. Reward yourself.
43. Be flexible.
42. Be gentle with yourself.
41. Be open to being wrong.
40. Laugh for no reason.
39. Light candles.
38. Enjoy nature.
37. Get a message.
36.Congratulate yourself.
35. Know yourself.
34. Appreciate where you are today.
33. Give yourself space.
32. Breathe mindfully.
31. Communicate your emotions.
30. Learn to relax.
29. Meditate.
28. Say no more often.
27. Experience new things.
26. Take mini breaks throughout the day.
25. Create personal affirmation cards, use daily.
24. Hang out with positively happy people.
23. Schedule fun times for yourself.
22. Make your car a sanctuary.
21. Dress for success.
20. Be impecably groomed.
19. Balance your energy.
18. Recharge your batteries.
17. Refuse to argue.
16. Balance your diet.
15. Sleep sound.
14. Persevere.
13. Feel and express gratitude.
12. Give up self put-downs.
11. Develop your intuition.
10. Learn to hold your own hand.
9. Accept your physical appearance.
8. Keep your cool.
7. Vent in a positive way.
6. Speak kindly of yourself.
5. Be brave.
4. Learn to calm yourself.
3. Listen to music.
2. Make the most of every opportunity.
1. Start fresh each day.
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Being a good friend comes with a price :|
For the past couple of weeks, I’ve been trying to be a good best friend and help my friend Jhen out with his bf Danny. I would call and text Danny for jhen when he didn’t have a phone. I would send Danny little love texts from Jhen. But today the shit hit the fan. Jhen called me and started bitching at me because Danny wouldn’t call him. See Danny is a family person, his family comes first to him. Danny will do anything for his mother, father, cousins, so on and so on. Between his family and his job, Danny barely has anytime for leisure and the time he did have he committed to Jhen and his crazy ass. Just now, Jhen called Danny and flipped at him for not calling him within the last few days. Honstely, Danny could do better than Jhen ( Sad to say because hes a dear friend to me but this boy has fucking commitment issues) Anyway, after I found out what happened, being the person I am, I texted Danny and asked if he was ok and what happened. He told me Jhen called and yelled at him and told him to never fucking call again. I told Danny don’t then, like whats the point trying to get through to him. After waiting for Dannys current text, Jhen called me back saying he was having an anxiety attack. I asked why, he didn’t know. Then he started asking me to call Danny so that he could call Jhen and talk to him. Now I was a bit pissed because Jhen put Danny through so much in the short amount of time they’ve been together. So I told him that I wouldn’t. He started calling me a traitor, said I wanted Danny for myself. Hey I won’t lie, Danny is fucking adorable and can do way better than Jhen. But I wouldn’t go for Danny, I mean seriously? He dated one of my best friends. That’s fucked up. But I yelled at Jhen and told him if he cared so much he wouldn’t keep acting like a spoiled fucking princess and man the fuck up. A relationship does call for good communication and with Danny its hard because he’s always busy plus with school starting up, the only time he gets to relax is when hes sleep. So I banged on Jhen and texted Danny again saying Sorry for the cruel things Jhen have done to him, cause I know Jhen’s dumb pride won’t let him do it. Now i’m just waiting for Danny to text me back. Ugh :| I get myself involved in the dumbest things.